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Coping Strategy Cards 

Coping Strategy cards are a practical tool designed to help adults identify emotions, discover coping strategies, and practice grounding techniques. These visual cards provide quick, accessible support for both daily check-ins and crisis moments, offering a tangible way to navigate emotional challenges.

Each card presents a different approach—whether it’s recognizing an emotion, engaging in a grounding exercise, or selecting a coping strategy that fits the moment.

Internal Family Systemss

Understanding Internal Family Systems (IFS)

Internal Family Systems (IFS) is a therapeutic approach that helps individuals understand the different "parts" within themselves—like the inner critic, protector, or wounded child. By recognizing and working with these parts, you can develop greater self-awareness, emotional balance, and inner healing.

Below, you'll find IFS cards designed to help identify and connect with your internal parts. These visual tools can support self-reflection, making it easier to explore emotions, patterns, and the roles each part plays in your life.

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How to Use IFS Cards for Self-Reflection & Healing

IFS cards can be a powerful tool for identifying and working with your internal parts. Here’s how to use them effectively:

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1. Set the Space

  • Find a quiet, comfortable place where you can reflect without distractions.

  • Take a few deep breaths to centre yourself before starting.

2. Identify a Current Challenge

  • Think about a situation that’s bringing up strong emotions.

  • Ask yourself: What am I feeling right now? Which parts of me are reacting?

3. Choose a Card

  • Look through the IFS cards and see if one resonates with how you’re feeling.

  • If multiple cards stand out, lay them out and notice how they relate to each other.

4. Get Curious About the Part

  • Ask yourself (or journal about):

    • What does this part want me to know?

    • What is its role in my life?

    • Is it protecting me from something deeper?

    • How does it feel about me noticing it?

5. Engage with Compassion

  • Instead of judging or trying to get rid of a part, approach it with curiosity and kindness.

  • Ask: What does this part need from me?

  • If it feels safe, thank the part for its role in your life.

6. Explore a Shift

  • If the part is willing, ask how you can work together differently.

  • Consider pulling another card to explore what might help this part feel more supported.

7. Integrate & Reflect

  • Take a few moments to reflect on what you’ve learned.

  • You may want to journal, meditate, or revisit the exercise later if new insights emerge.

These cards can be used daily or as needed, offering a tangible way to connect with your inner world. 

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