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Emotions & Regulation Strategies

Understanding Emotions & Finding Strategies That Work for You

Emotions can be overwhelming, confusing, and sometimes difficult to navigate. This resource page is designed to help you recognize, understand, and manage your emotions in a way that feels supportive and empowering.

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Here, you’ll find worksheets, exercises, and practical strategies to help you build emotional awareness, develop coping tools, and create a plan for navigating difficult moments. Whether you're looking to identify emotions, regulate overwhelming feelings, or explore new ways to support yourself, these resources are here to help.

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Take your time exploring, and remember—there’s no right or wrong way to engage with these tools. Use what resonates with you, and leave the rest.

Popular Workbooks, Worksheets, Information

This workbook is designed to help you recognize, track, and manage emotions in a practical way. Through guided exercises, you'll explore how feelings show up in your body, develop strategies for coping, and build emotional awareness over time. Whether you struggle to name emotions, feel overwhelmed, or want to improve regulation skills, this resource provides a structured, supportive approach. 

This worksheet helps you identify people, places, and supports that bring you comfort and stability. Use it to map out your personal support system and strengthen your sense of safety during difficult times. Click here to learn more!

This guide explains how our emotions are regulated through three key systems: Threat (Protection & Survival), Drive (Motivation & Achievement), and Soothing (Calm & Connection). It explores how these systems function normally, what happens when they become dysregulated, and how they relate to the Window of Tolerance—our emotional capacity to handle stress.

You'll also find practical strategies to regulate emotions, return to balance, and strengthen emotional resilience. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or disconnected, this resource provides tools to help you regain stability and well-being.

Stress the Window of Tolerance
and Flipping Your Lid

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Window of Tolerance

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Emotional and Nervous System Regulation

Audio For Regulation
Deb Dana

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Nervous System Regulation

Autonomic Nervous System 
Chart 

 

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Strategy List

Regulation Tools and Strategy Lists

Blog - Nurturing Mental Well-being: Daily Practices, Coping Strategies, and the Window of Tolerance

EFT Tapping

Tapping Points Blog

Tapping Information Video
 

Tapping

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Havening

Vergence

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Brainspotting

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Mindfulness & Meditation

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Values 

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Awareness Log

Cycling

Self Care

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Burnout & Compassion Fatigue

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Crisis Planning 
Worksheet

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Crisis & Safety
Planning

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Emotions

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Today I Feel

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Feeling Wheel

Girl Relaxing

Coping & Mindfulness Skills

Calm Beach

Calm/Safe
Space

Rope Obstacle Course

WOOP
Planning for Obstacles

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Advantage Disadvantage

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Session Recap

Taking Notes

In Between Session Notes

Counselling Clients

DBT Skills Section

General

Definitions & List of Skills

Diary Card Wk 1

Diary Card/Skills

Website with More DBT Tools

Fire

Burning Bridges

PDF

Mindfulness Skills

Mindfulness & Meditation

Pathways to Wise Mind

Observe, Describe, Participate

Mind States

Emotion Mind

 

Emotion Mind will act out of fear, excitement, sadness, anger, joy and more.

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Triggers can be:

- Argument

- Fighting urges

- Procrastinating tasks

- Certain people, places or events

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It can be difficult to maintain impartial and a reasonable mindset when in this state.

Wise Mind

 

BOTH Rational and Emotional minds are used when making a decisions. The Wise Mind honours and accepts emotions, while taking into account the facts. It is often referred to as your inner wisdom.

Reason Mind

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Reason Mind bases its decisions on facts, evidence and what has worked in the past. 

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Situations that use rational mind may be:

Deciding on what to eat

Driving 

Planning an event

Learning

Fixing an item

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However these activities can be hijacked by emotions. For example, deciding on what to eat by emotions if you are trying to eat healthier.

Distress Tolerance Skills

Distress Tolerance Skills help to distract you and help you through stressfull /  emotional situations.

ACCEPTS

A - Activities
C - Contributions
C - Comparisons
E - Emotions
P - 
Pushing Away
T - 
Thoughts
S - 
Sensations

IMPROVE the Moment

I  - be Fair
M - no Apologies
P - stick to Values
R - be Truthful
O - 
be Truthful
V - 
be Truthful
E - 
be Truthful

Self Soothe

PDF

Pros & Cons

PDF

Accepting Reality

PDF

Tip The Temperature

Tip the temperature of your face with ice water (to calm down fast). Hold your breath and put your face in a bowl of ice water. OR hold an ice pack on your eyes and cheeks. Hold it for 10 to 30 seconds.

Intense Exercise

To help calm your nervous system down when it is revved up. Engaging in intense exercise for a short while uses up your body's stored energy. Try running, walking, basketball, lifting weights, jumping, skip rope, etc.

Willingness

PDF

Paced Breathing

Pace your breathing by slowing it down. Breathe deeply into your belly. Breathe in for 5 counts breathe out for 7.

Emotional Regulation Skills

Emotional Regulation Skills include naming and understanding your emotions, decrease frequency of unpleasant emotions, decrease vulnerability to emotions and decrease emotional suffering.

Build Mastery

Model of Emotions

Opposite to Emotion 

Information

Worksheet

Emotional Regulation for Feelings

Basic Emotions and their Opposites

Emotions on a Continuum

PLEASED Skill

PL - Treat PhysicaL Illness
E - Balance Elating
A - Avoid mood altering substances
S - 
Sleep
E - 
Exercise

Interpersonal Skills

The goals of Interpersonal Skills is to have people understand and meeting your needs by strengthening and building relationships.  

FAST Skills

F - be Fair
A - no Apologies
S - stick to Values
T - be Truthful

GIVE Skills

G - be Gentle
I - act Interested
V - Validate
E - use an Easy manner

ASSERT Skills

A - Ask/set boundaries
S - Say what is needed
E - Eye contact
R - Respectful
T - Timing

DEAR MAN Skills

D - Describe situation
E - Express feelings
A - Assert by asking
R - Reinforce / explain positive effects of getting needs met

M - Mindful / focus on goals
A - Appear confident
N - Negotiate

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